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Is it wrong to live my life for me?
I'm single and don't think its wrong for me to be into myself or what I really mean is to take care of myself. Like I love my hair done and wearing nice clothes, and I buy them for myself. My friends get on my nerve saying I'm stuck up or selfish all the time because I'm good to myself. I don't have a boyfriend so if I don't take care of myself I will not have anything or enjoy my life. I love being in a relationship and catering to my man BUT I'm not in a relationship right now. And I also love being single and being able to tend to my own needs. I'm happy single or in a relationship. I help others and I'm not self centered. I love to give great gifts! Lol... Are my friends jealous because I don't have the responsibility of a relationship right now like they do? What's the problem?
5 Answers
- 9 years agoFavourite answer
They're sooo jealous. Don't be in a relationship just because someone else tells you to be in one. If you're happy then stay how you are. Once you meet someone who you like and would like to have a relationship then go for it. It's much better to do that instead of being in several different relationships which wont bring you any happiness. Do what's better for you instead of what people thiink you should do.
- Anonymous9 years ago
You dont have any problem. Your friends are just jealous of you because you don't have responsibility on your man. You are single and happy then that is a great one. Maybe someday you will find someone who will be with you and share your life with.
- 9 years ago
First of all, you're friends shouldn't be calling you stuck up and selfish. They should be supporting you in whatever you do, not bring you down! And there's never anything wrong with being happy! Think of it this way: Do you really need to look ugly and lazy to be selfless? Don't become obsessed with yourself, but don't think you're stuck up just because you look nice. Good luck!
- Anonymous9 years ago
no i don't think so, well if you punch your friends in the face becuase she knocked into your arm by accident i think we have a problem then, but other then that i think your perfectly fine. if they were your real friends they wounldn't say your selfish. unless you get them nothing for their wedding or day.
