KayKay96

Guys approach me but I just got out of a relationship and though it doesn't show, I'm still very hurt. I don't think I should explain that to every guy so how do I turn them down without hurting egos or feelings. Because I'm really not ready yet? How do I say that?

I am so angry... My sons father doesn't help me raise my son at all. He has 2 cars and a 3 bedroom house that he lives in alone. He always says he can't help me cuz he has his own bills but I feel like he can get a smaller house if he's not even using all those room so that he can help support his son. I know this is a common complaint now a days and I don't want to complain I need a solution. I guess I'm angry because I feel dependent for his support and I feel helpless. I work and every penny goes to my son but he goes out and lives a single life. I'm working and saving trying to become completely independent of him so I don't have to worry about his non support. But I get angry that he comes around and just puts me down to make himself feel better about not being around. He tells my son I keep him away from him which is a lie. I hold this anger in til my son goes to sleep and then I cry. I don't want child support advice cuz I already filed with no results. I need anger management advice. Thanks.

I paid a portion of my rent on July first and my agreed to allow me to pay the rest on July 13 (which is today). I called him last night to let him know I was bring to money order in the morning but he didn't asked. And this morning he wouldn't accept the money order gave me te unlawful detained tthat he filed yesterday July 12. Idk why he filed but he did. I've lived here 10 years without a problem. I feel so unappreciated because the first time I'm late he does this. I don't wanna live here anymore. Can I just leave? Do I have to pay? Where do I pay if he wont accept it? I've been praying to move because he doesn't fix anything around here so maybe this was my way out. I wanna leave... help!

People around here are so sad with no hope for change. I tried to be the person to be positive and show happiness but they are now trying to pull me down. Sometimes I feel bad or guilty for smiling or being happy at all with my life because they seem so down always. I just wanna be happy. I wanna be a friend but not at the expense of my happiness. Am I wrong for believing my life is amazing and wanting to enjoy it when my friends and even my own mother is sad and attempting to pull me down with her? What do I do?

Lately I find myself doing alot of things just to see if I can do it. I'm becoming just to see if I can do it. I'm becoming obsessed with trying stuff. Not bad stuff but just stuff. I like testing my limits all of a sudden. Maybe I'm just getting to know myself. My friends think I'm weird because I used to be so shy and not adventurous and now like over night I'm unpredictable. But just because I don't blab all my business or don't talk alot doesn't mean I'm shy. I just don't express every part of ne. Like I blew my mans mind last night just to see if I could. He loved it and said he didn't know I had it in me. Why am I becoming so expressive? HELP!

My ex wants to be back together with me but I'm having a hard time trusting him because he hurt me so bad in the past. I'm willing to talk it out and try to get past this but he keeps saying "I didn't hurt you". He has done so much.. even had a child with another during our relationship. I'm wooing to work past it but I can't when he won't acknowledge that he hurt me at all. I feel like he can easily hurt me again if he doesn't even feel that he hurt me at all. Is he serious or just avoiding the responsibility?

I'm single and don't think its wrong for me to be into myself or what I really mean is to take care of myself. Like I love my hair done and wearing nice clothes, and I buy them for myself. My friends get on my nerve saying I'm stuck up or selfish all the time because I'm good to myself. I don't have a boyfriend so if I don't take care of myself I will not have anything or enjoy my life. I love being in a relationship and catering to my man BUT I'm not in a relationship right now. And I also love being single and being able to tend to my own needs. I'm happy single or in a relationship. I help others and I'm not self centered. I love to give great gifts! Lol... Are my friends jealous because I don't have the responsibility of a relationship right now like they do? What's the problem?

I like to hang out but I don't want a relationship. I'm not necessary bitter or broken but I've had bad relationships and right now I'm just enjoying being me. I will admit that I love to feel wanted but I don't want to get serious with anyone. I let guys know this up front and they say they're cool with just hanging out but somewhere down the line they bring up relationships. I don't let on or accept gifts. I have my own money, apt, car and so on. Am I wrong? Or what am I doing wrong that makes them want a relationship? I don't know if I ever want a relationship again really. Help!

I never know how to act around these women who do not like me. Most of them do not like me because they tried to be with my boyfriend behind my back and he denied them and warned me that they were not real friends to me like I thought they were. I wish I didn't have to be around them but unfortunately I do. Also they say I'm conceited just because take care of myself and I like to dress nicely. I can't afford much but I dress as nice as I can and keep my hair fixed nice as possible (I do my own hair but it looks like I go to a shop lol). They love to talk behind my back but I don't care about that. I just never know how to act when around them and sometimes they gang up against me and deliberately try to make me feel isolated, out of place and unwelcomed.

My boyfriend is upset with me and is acting funny, giving me the silent treatment and just seems to be refusing to please at all. He's actually doing the opposite of everything he knows I want him to do. He will not have sex with me or let me touch him. He's hurt because he found out that I was with this guy that he works with now when we were broken up 5 years ago. But we were broken up. He won't forgive me even though I did nothing wrong because were broken up and he was in a relationship with another woman. We're back together/ living together now but he looks so hurt all the time and sometimes is really mean to me. I love him so much. What do I do?

I had a dream that my boyfriend was driving me thru my hometown but I felt like I didnt belong there anymore, I felt like I was maybe famous or very successful and really had no place in my hometown anymore. I know I didn't live there anymore and I felt like I was out of place like maybe visiting but I was searching for a reason to be there. I had no real reason to return there. I asked him to drive me to this little taco restaurant that I like because that's the only reason I could think of being in the town for. Like the only thing I missed about this town. What does this mean?

I want my ex back but I'm not into chasing or manipulation. I mean I've tried that but its exhausting and I'm not doing that ever again. So I figure that if he wants me he'll come get me. I don't wanna be lasy or passive aboutthis because i do want him but idk. We broke up because we were not communicating like we should have but we have since fixed that. We talk openly now. I want him back so bad but I don't wanna pursue him. I want him to move back home also. What should I do?

I dream of leaving my home town and moving away. Or maybe I just need to travel and see new things. I have an 11 yr old son but he will be ok with his Father (we not together but are great parents) if I decide to travel. I just can't stand knowing there's a big world out there that I've never seen. I've raised my son alone up until a year ago and I just need some me time. I don't know what to do. I want to get away for a while. I've always wanted to leave and see new things but I must admit that a recent break up with my boyfriend made m decide the time is now. I really need to get away... What should I do?

Yesterday I came home to find out that my boyfriend took all his things in left. We have been disagreeing about alot of things and I've been clingy and sorta nagging a bit. He was supposed to spend the Thanksgiving holiday with his family so I knew he would be going but he took hus suitcase and all His shoes. He doesn't have many thing but the suitcase and shoes but he left without telling me when he's coming back. His phn is off so I cannot call him right now. He left but didn't leave the house keys.... Is he coming back?