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I don't want a relationship. Am I wrong?
I like to hang out but I don't want a relationship. I'm not necessary bitter or broken but I've had bad relationships and right now I'm just enjoying being me. I will admit that I love to feel wanted but I don't want to get serious with anyone. I let guys know this up front and they say they're cool with just hanging out but somewhere down the line they bring up relationships. I don't let on or accept gifts. I have my own money, apt, car and so on. Am I wrong? Or what am I doing wrong that makes them want a relationship? I don't know if I ever want a relationship again really. Help!
4 Answers
- 9 years agoFavourite answer
you are doing nothing wrong. you are being 100% real. the guys are also not wrong. they cant help how they feel.its true there are some people who can be with someone and not have expectations. but there are some people who just cant be having fun with people without developing emotions. they might say they just want a friendship, but its not wrong for emotions to grow and for thier feelings to change. and there is nothing wrong with them asking you for a relationships, they are hoping your feelings have changed as theirs have. not much you can do but be true to yourself. and try not to lead guys on, and just treat them as friends.
- Anonymous9 years ago
idk
