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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 7 days ago

Why am I bored during sex?

I love my husband, I crave sex with him all the time if we dont end up having sex when we want to due to other life priorities preventing us from it both of us think it sucks but then when we get the chance to we're excited/eager. But then once we're actually having sex no matter how much I'm enjoying it. I feel bored. He's not boring. The sex isn't boring. I want to have sex. But I feel bored.

Updated 7 days ago:

I have no interest whatsoever in women.

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  • 6 days ago

    I feel like you might be a little confused. Have you tried literally anything else?

  • ?
    Lv 6
    6 days ago

    Try spicing things up like try spanking if you're into that type of thing (my ex always used to spank me during sex at my request and I loved it) or maybe even try changing positions like if your husband always goes on top maybe you could go on top, or do doggy style.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 days ago

    Try something drastically different like letting someone watch

  • "But then once we're actually having sex no matter how much I'm enjoying it. I feel bored. He's not boring. The sex isn't boring. I want to have sex. But I feel bored".

    You are one confused woman. 

  • 7 days ago

    maybe you should get some marriage counseling

  • Anonymous
    7 days ago

    Maybe you need to mix things up a little and try something different. For instance, try tying him up, not by will but by force! Give him a BJ while using a toy on him. If you demand pleasure then he should respond to it. I like to role play. Be someone else and let him F#$% you. Buy a wig and try acting.

    I would also be really honest about what you like and what he likes. This should get the juices flowing. Then all you have to do is act it out. If he is willing to do some different things then I would start with just the one on one things. No need for others yet. Those can become complex and should only be attempted at the end of a relationship or a very strong one.

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    7 days ago

    maybe you should get some counseling

  • 7 days ago

    You might be Lesbian.

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