Have you ever considered marriage counselling?

Been through that an still together after more than 30 years.

no not really...

Yes but both people have to want it not just you. And unfortunately, some relationships are BEYOND marriage counseling/couples counseling!

I have considered counselling others.  After 50 wonderful and happy years I think I have something to offer.  But those who need it most won't listen.  That is why they need the counselling.  In general those who will listen don't really need to.

We tried it. My (ex) wife lied, the counselors believed her and openly accused me of lying. My ex wife even had affairs with two of them. One of them lied in court supporting her, even though we had hard evidence supporting my claims. I've never seen counseling wok long term. If you need counseling I think it's already too late. Don't put it off. Go ahead and start the divorce. It doesn't get easier if you wait.

No.            

And what advice might you be seeking?

Yes.  But it didn't really seem like quite the career for me.

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As a job?

😄😁 Ill put that on my list. 

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