Why do therapists ask questions in third person?

Question

I’m Jeffrey. They will directly ask me “Does Jeffrey like jokes?” “Jeffrey probably wants this painting out of his room”  They say it like there talking about me but to me. Does anyone know this process?

edj1992 · Answer

Yes, for the purpose of emphasis.

♠ Merlin ♠ · Answer

Jeffrey  might not like talking about himself so when he answers, he is saying "Jeffrey " not "I......"
Many find it hard to talk about themselves, so, speaking in the 3rd person helps

I have never heard of a therapist who uses this though

Anonymous · Answer

Mirroring I'd say

Private Check Off · Answer

ikr? God made us like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Ask them not us...

Anonymous · Answer

No, but it's enough to make Jeffrey want to get out of there and find someone else.

Anonymous · Answer

You're the patient and you have every right to ask them why they use that phrasing.
I've never known of any therapist who talks like that.

Why do therapists ask questions in third person?

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