How do I take these comments that came with being disowned by my bio family?

For one, my dad recently called to say he only has 2 daughters (me being the third/youngest) as his way of disowning me for not being able to have kids and not having a degree yet (i'm 21 but switched my major a year ago and had to start most of my credits over).

Also, my cousin recently said, for similar reasons, that I am a lowlife degrading all the efforts of obtaining women's rights just because I do still have my reproductive organs (which will be removed soon due to problems caused by genetics) and am going to college instead of respecting thaht, as a woman, I won't get anywhere unless I act like a sl*t because of the sexist society we live in (America, CO), I'm the one who inspires her to drink, and that this is why my only purpose for being alive is to absorb bullets if she or someone else gets mad enough at the world.

I expected a lot of this when I started going to college and when I started having the problems with my parts, but I didn't expect my family to be so hateful. I only expected them to just ignore me.