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How to communicate with girls?

i finished my schooling in separate school for men.....but now i joined the college before two months,the problem i never talked with a girl friendly.....even though they talk to me very nicely i will usually have laggy conversation....i don't known how the girls will feel......

please help me how to talk with a girl without any lag

thank you!! :)

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  • 9 years ago
    Favourite answer

    First of all you need to be happy with yourself. Be yourself ,be honest.Have respect for a girl> do not swear and carry on hip talk. ask the things like 'so how are you'. what hobbies or sport do you like. whats your favorite movie etc. If all goes well ,ask her to have coffee at your favorite shop. Make sure your teeth are clean, good breath, underarm deodorant. clean shirt . Good Luck

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Go to Youtube and watch videos of girls talking to men. Watch movie videos and see how men talk to girls. Basic conversation would be like, "how are you, did you enjoy the lecture in class"? Or, start up a conversation about sports, shopping, movies, poetry, music or the weather. Always begin with something simple that makes you feel comfortable. The rest will come natural. Do not over think it. Have fun.

  • 5 years ago

    basically relax and be large. maximum women like boys and if you're an wonderful individual, form, and organic, you received't have issues. in no way assume that each and each and every female is going to love you or being your buddy, life doesn't artwork like that. yet maximum women, as I reported are sociable and with an uncomplicated topic you could initiate a communication and who knows of, you would make an wonderful buddy. do no longer ask own questions, that's yet another recommend. And keep in concepts you at the instantaneous are not on my own, there are one of those shy human beings like you in both sexes. good luck!

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Start by simply commenting on the decor, a teacher, classroom or whatever. Or say you like the colour they are wearing,(if you do!) or their hair ("my sister wears hers like that"), shoes, or whatever. Girls are ok with some shyness, but not really cowardice!

    Make lots of friends! Listening is good for making friends: ask people questions about them selves & their opinions and listen to them without interruption, except for little comments that demonstrate that you're really listening. It shows you are taking them seriously. (As in respect). Be open minded and try not to disagree with people - if they like a band you hate, ask what it is they like about them, best track, etc. (Avoid the word, “why” as it can sound challenging). You can always say you don't listen to them much but you will now or something. Smiling is a good sign of acceptance.

    Remember, if you want to have a friend, you have to BE a friend, and the best way to impress someone is to be impressed by them!

    Something else. We like to do things for our other people, don’t we? It makes us feel good. Indeed the more we do for them on the whole, the better we like them. Conversely, when we do things against people, it doesn’t make us like them – quite the opposite! So – ALLOW people to do things for you! I don’t mean use them, obviously, but little things. Asking for advice for example - genuinely, of course, & don't overdo it. Ditto information – we feel pleased to tell someone something interesting they didn’t know, such as what’s on in town, latest bargains, etc. Also little favours. So by being impressed by that you’ll get some good feelings from them.

    One thing you can do is always to ensure you have a straight back: sit, stand and walk tall: this has the “reverse psychology” effect of helping us to feel more confident. Once we have self respect and a sense of self worth, we tend to find that other people respect us more too

    We older types often wish we hadn't taken ourselves and everything quite so very seriously during our short teen years, because they are a period of emotional change and discovery - everything changes! The important things are to develop self respect and emotional self sufficiency and to work on your values and qualities such as integrity. Also ensure that you have no unnecessary fear (False Evidence Appearing Real!). WE CAN decide about our changes by practising in our minds the kind of person we wish and intend to be. People respect those who walk tall, whatever their height, so always ensure you have a straight back, whether sitting, standing or walking. This helps our self esteem.

    Enjoy!

  • 9 years ago

    talk normally as with boys

    nd d most amazing thing is that talk with confidence oderwise people will think smthing else about you

  • 9 years ago

    Relax, and do some research on conversation topics. Maybe just pretend they are guys haha.

    Answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201202...

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Start smoking. So when you see a girl whos smoking you ask her for a lighter and talk while having your smokes :)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I often use a puppet

  • 9 years ago

    be yourself homeboy

    dont be a creep though

    dont snifff her

    dont grab her booty

    don't do stupid ****

  • 9 years ago

    just be yourself

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