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In most of the Divorced cases the fault is due to i)ego ii) money and iii)sex behaviour.How to overcome this?
Eventhough male and female knew the problem between them is because of the above three causes, why cannot they sit and analyse things and solve themselves?
from the answers, I infer /find the following
(1)In olden days there is less opertunities for woman for earning and they cooperative with male:
(2) now a days equal earning and equal right made them to be very egomatic and spoil the life
(3) but the woman must realise that they are the most affected persons in life in the end
9 Answers
- Honey786Lv 41 decade agoFavourite answer
In a marriage or love there should not be fault finding attitude towards your spouse. If you cultivate such kind of behaviour then there will not be divorce. Inference may not be preconceived as you have thought let it come naturally and unbiased one.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
Well if your partner is being bull headed about it, why dont you try being mature and be more giving ? Maybe your behaviour will shame him to be more civilized. Instead of trying to have a discussion with a male, it would be much better if you give him what he wants which will inturn result in getting what you want. Dont start any finger pointing as nobody likes to take the blame even if they are guilty as charged.
- 1 decade ago
Mostly the problem is ego! but with good education and career possibilities open to them the girls today don't think they are any less than men and they shouldn't, but in older days women were subservient to men and hence marriages worked. Nowadays women have come long way and sadly men are still living in their older moulds. They need to change too!!
- 1 decade ago
ego is main problem arise between them is making complicate in behavior of thinking, respecting between them is become down
money become problem of dowry cases which the conflict between them is arises so small &becom big
sex behavior in modern life cause a great distance between the couple the impact of forigen culture leads to the change of partners is become general to their in attitude
the ego of man which is came from orthdox is generally in behaviour
ego of a women is coming fromfefminism which making their mind to change that when she have the financial freedom then she neglecting the partner
when they are releave from ego 's & discuss with each other then only the divorces become less
when ther is a trust between them it happen
- ZaferusLv 61 decade ago
You can talk until you are blue in the face, you can try to compromise, counseling, to offer to change anything in your life if they will change even just a little to address the issues.
But in the end if your partner doesn't want to change and only wants to blame/make excuses what can you do?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
How to say that to you.Everyone have they own proud,and no one don't want to live their own position.They want to rule and be right in everything.In my own opinion,that husband have to be a main in everything,but he also have to know about his wife's thoughts about the problem that they have and do everything possible that he and his wife was happy in the end.Can you answered on a very simple question to yourself?Is it everyone do that(I mean married people?)or they want that everything goodness was only to them not to others?If you know the answer on this question,you get everything that I was write you upper.Be happy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
it is just the ego problem....i think it affects their future...u r rite they should sit and analyse things and solve themselves....y third party shud come and interfere....
