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U know who asked in PetsBirds · 1 decade ago

How to make pals with my parrot?

when I bought him, he was just 1.5 months old and now he is 4 months old but he cannot fly. he is a geern parrot. although now he is not so afraid of me but still I am not getting the impression I have expected. parrots are supposed to be very friendly but he just is'nt. he never eats in front of me and drops whatever he is eating when I pass by. I want to take that fright out of him! help me, what should I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Positive Reinforcement Training.

    Here are some websites:

    http://exoticpets.about.com/od/behavior/...

    http://www.naturalencounters.com/parrot....

    http://www.parrotconnection.org/reading_...

    Barbara Heidenreich's "Good Bird" Magazine is excellent:

    http://www.goodbirdinc.com/

    Do your homework, study the techniques and you will be well on your way to teaching him all kinds of things.

    You need to learn more about training.

    First things first:

    1.

    Find out what he eats first out of his food bowl and make sure he only gets that when you are training him. Do not give it to him as part of his food. This is your "Reinforcer".

    2.

    Do some research and find out what kind of parrot you have. This would be an excellent start on things.

    3.

    Begin reading about diet, nutrition, proper care, training, positive reinforcement, vitamins, mineral supplements, safe toys, and get rid of your teflon pans. (If they are accidentally put on a high temperature, the fumes from the burning teflon will kill your bird. Better safe than sorry.)

    Please see this:

    http://www.ecomall.com/greenshopping/teflon4.htm

    Parrots are not the easiest companions in the world to live with, but they are wonderful once they learn some manners; it's up to you to teach them. You simply have to do your homework. There's a ton of information on the internet. Use that teaching tool in front of you: your computer. It will be the best teacher you'll every have if you look things up and learn about your bird.

    Best of Luck and if you work with him, you won't believe what can happen!

    Source(s): Companion Parrot Behavior Consultant Parrot Rescue Volunteer
  • 1 decade ago

    A green parrot...possibly an amazon or a quaker? One other thing...you got him when he was one and half mos old...so 7 or 8 weeks of age? Was he even weaned by that age? Did you handfeed him? I raise eclectus parrots and it takes at LEAST 12-14 weeks to wean them....8-10 for smaller breeds such as tiels. Sorry I'm a little confused how you got such a young bird that is weaned.... Well either way it doesn't sound like he's been well socialized by his breeder and if he's that young he's been force weaned/starved to make him eat on his own...which is very traumatic for them. Was probably fed and put back in the cage with no interaction at all. This is a problem with a lot of breeders, they are more interested in the money than the care and love of the birds.

    At his age I would try to win his heart with food..get something that you know he'll like. Grapes, cherries, granny smith apples and try to hand it to him and talk gently to him. Maybe even go buy a container of handfeeding formula and a bird syringe, he may take to that and bond with you over it. Tell him what a good boy or girl he/she is and how much you love them. My 10 yr old african grey will STILL take a syringe full of handfeeding formula when I'm feeding babies.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sit down nearby and talk to the bird, on occasion put hand near cage, so he gets used to it! Do this everyday same time of day, like before school and before bedtime. Spend like an hour each time.

    Eat in front of the bird! Spaghetti or sandwich. Don't offer human food, unless it checks out okay in the bird book bible, made just for that bird. OR look on internet to see what foods can be shared.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would handle him as much as possible, let him know that you are his friend. When you handle him have something like a bowl of fruit on your lap that he can reach and snack on if he wants, don't be upset if he doesn't go for the food the first couple times, he might wait until he's gotten used to being held by you before he decides to eat while being held. My african grey took about two months before he would eat with me, but he's a great companion now

  • 1 decade ago

    The way you bond with your parrot is u don't move to quick around him, and when u reach in to hold him put your hand out without being scarred close to his chest and tell him to step up if he has not learned this he will, also do not shout around him, try and talk sweet to him with a gentle voice and most birds will actually kiss you, if he bites at all don't try this, even some that bit do like to kiss though. if he lets u pet him, pet him very gently, u will know if he doesn't like it. That's about all I can tell u!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Keep talking to the parrot

  • 1 decade ago

    He may not be very sociable as he is still young but if you HOLD his food for him especially something he LOVES!!!!! While talking softly, eventually he will associate you with calm, gentle and Favorite food! I had a Mealy Amazon and he was a delight....teach him some words...just say them over and over and over and over EVENTUALLY he will respond...do not have any mirrors or other birds he can relate to...he will need you since they do not enjoy being alone...ALWAYS talk to him....very important to handle him a LOT and talk a LOT

    Source(s): experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Find out what kind of parrot he/she is and visit websites about that variety. There are usually good tips and suggestions.

  • 1 decade ago

    Speak to him calmly, Try to feed him from outside the cage (pass a slice of apple)

  • 1 decade ago

    all you can do is spend more time with him try taking him out and holding him on your hand while talking to him have a pocket full of sunflowerseeds parrots love them

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