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    How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to kiss him anymore?

    I feel like kissing him is for 13 year olds.  We're 28.  We have made out everyday from 2:15-2:30 PM, and again from 8:30-9:30 PM.  This has occurred for the past 5 years. Instead of switching up our times, I want to stop kissing him forever.  It's never felt magical.  It's on my to-do list under doing the dishes.  

    26 AnswersSingles & Dating1 week ago
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    How to understand if a guy has bad intentions ?

    There's a co worker who stares at me and smiles. He had been doing this for a while, since he's good looking I thought maybe it's just testing how many girls he can conquer. Well I decided to stop smiling back and greeting him, since he never said hello to me. Well one day I saw a him with another female co worker and they were talking about me and looking at me so I felt uncomfortable and went away. The same day there was a public transport strike and when I needed my shift at 22 pm he was waiting for me outside pretending to smoke a cigarette (I say he pretended cause he was coughing, he was clearly not used to it). He told me if I wanted he could take me home by car, I said no, he was a total stranger to me and I didn't trust him. It would have been 20 miles in the opposite direction of his home to take me home, so why would he do that? It costs money and time. He offered to wait with me until my mom came to pick me up because (his words) "I don't want someone to comeand kidnap you". We stayed at the bus stop waiting and talked a bit about hobbies ans stuff. He seemed a quiet guy by the way. Just weird cause he was waiting for me outside. Anyway, when my mom came he greeted her (is that normal?) Saying good evening and smiled at me and went to his car. It was weird. The guy kept smiling all the time. The following days he just said hello and smiled at me but we didn't talk. He just helped me with some things but we didn't small talk. When I asked his co worker she told me 

    9 AnswersFriends6 days ago
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    I believe my boyfriend is going to propose! ?

    His parents flew from Their country, his family has been commenting about weddings to us. His brothers say stuff like “ look do you like this for your wedding “ or “look for your honeymoon” and also his brother was like “ man well this guy wants to to get married, what are you giving him” lol I’m like nothing lol 😆 his niece asked me what style of rings I liked. They’re making it obvious lol my boyfriend told me a few weeks before his parents got here that he can’t tell me but he’s planning for when his parents come and for something else and that I’ll find out soon. But he needs to save as much as he can after that so he might get a second job. My boyfriend has told me to do my nails (since I do my own acrylics at home) So isn’t this so obvious? Lol his parents rarely come and they did this month. His sister is coming next week as well. Idk am I illusional? Lol 

    9 AnswersEngagements & Weddings7 days ago
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    My estranged sister has died.  Now what things would I best do to show support to my parents (mother especially)?

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    Honey, any death, of a loved one, or one who was not so loved, but whom you knew well, is a loss. Please accept my condolences. Now, about your postings: I think you are putting much too much time and attention into them, and that your energies might be better directed to doing what's needed vis a vis the funeral, your family, and your own personal needs. What we think really doesn't matter as much as all this.

    So, upward and onward, with your life, and good wishes now.

    13 AnswersFamily1 week ago
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    Mood after affair?

    So it's been a month and a half since I found out my husband had affairs for a month (that I'm aware of). For the first month things were getting better communication was great and we made some real progress on things between us. Things started declining going back to how they were before the discovery of the affairs 2 weeks ago and then he started a new job last week. Which has basically crumbled everything back to the way it was. He doesn't communicate he's in a bad mood all the time he's making assumptions about what I'm going to say. And no matter what I do or say it ends up with him getting a temper even when I'm being cheerful and accommodating to what he wants.

    What does this mean?

    What am I supposed to do? 

    I feel lost.

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 week ago
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    What do I say if I’m asked to speak at my sisters funeral this Saturday?

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    I think that, given how you saw her and felt about her, that it might be best if you took a pass on speaking at her funeral. You can say you prefer not to do it, no explanation needed.

    11 AnswersFamily1 week ago
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    What should I do after my verbal battle with my wife’s sister?

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    The expectation that you should be calling everyone daily for an update is too much, inappropriate. They become more of a burden than a help.  Be glad that she's not talking...its a favor ! You have terrible inlaws !  Avoid them, unless they can behave like proper grown ups. Your wife needs to confront them, its her family. 

    10 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 days ago
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    My wife is becoming a bit of a hoarder- what do I do?

    The company she works for recently returned to working in-person, and now she'll bring back stuff from the office- pens, post-its, sometimes cupcakes if people bring them in. But recently she's started hauling in whole-*** computer chairs, monitors, computer towers- pretty soon I found out this company is MORE than going out of business. They're having a goddamn auction. She's apparently been bidding big bucks for the furniture, computers, even a coffee machine! I ask where she's getting the money for this, she says she's been dipping into her 401k! It's her money, but damn, it seems irresponsible- and now our house is cluttered with office furniture! She says she's gonna sell it, but she seems to be in no rush. What the hell do I do?

    10 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 days ago
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    Is it bad manners to shorten a person's name when you have introduced yourself to that person using the correct pronunciation of your name?

    Just one person, with whom I work, decided to call me Maggie and several others tried calling me Peggy.   Both are derivatives of my actual name (which they knew).  How would you ask them to use your actual name.  I use all of their names correctly and always will do that unless or until they ask me to call them anything different.  I see no point in their asking me what is my name if they then intend to shorten it.  I would never use the shortened version of a person's name unless they asked me to do that.

    11 AnswersFriends1 week ago
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    I love my husband but he's useless and never wants to do anything ?

    I'm so embarrassed by him. When we first started dating, he told me he wants me to be a stay at home mom. I agreed to do just that. But a month after our wedding, he lost his job. I was the only one working. All he does is laze around and depend on everyone to get things done for him. He won't do anything unless you grab his hand and guide him to where he needs to be. This is a grown 30 year old man by the way. All he does is play victim. He always says how he had it hard in life and no one ever gives him an opportunity. But he literally does nothing with his time. He doesn't even try for himself. He keeps depending on his dad to send him money, so even his dad is sick of him. My husband is a very nice man and I never had someone love me the way he does. But I'm completely tired of him being so useless most of the time. It's been 2 years of patience and dedication and I see nothing happening. He plays victim and blames everyone except getting out there and trying for himself. I talk to him all the time but its always the same thing, victim blaming. When I tell him I will leave him, he tells me to go right ahead if I don't love him anymore. The problem is, I do love him but he never wants wants make things work. No amount of talking ever does anything and it's literally been 2 years and 6 months of trying. On top of all this mess, he's wanting a child and tells me that we should have one and he will find a job as soon as I'm pregnant. It's exhausting dealing with my husband 

    9 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 week ago
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    Is it normal my 21 year old son comes home from work at 9-10pm everyday?

    I know he finishes work at around 5-6, but then he'll go out afterwards to meet friends, do shopping, and eating out, and gym.

    I don't think it's normal behaviour at all honeslty, and feel likes he's honestly taking the p***, as he's out for more than 12 hours each day.

    9 AnswersFamily1 week ago
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    Why do older people 40 and over still date?

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    Why wouldn't they date?  Not everyone over 40 is married and there are reasons they wait to get married; career, travel, or they haven't found the right one.  40 is considered young now and they have many years left.  Lastly, people enjoy their single lives too.

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating6 days ago
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    Why am I bored during sex?

    I love my husband, I crave sex with him all the time if we dont end up having sex when we want to due to other life priorities preventing us from it both of us think it sucks but then when we get the chance to we're excited/eager. But then once we're actually having sex no matter how much I'm enjoying it. I feel bored. He's not boring. The sex isn't boring. I want to have sex. But I feel bored.

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating7 days ago
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    Please answer no ones answering ?

    What do you think about him ?

    What does it mean when a husband gifts his wife laptop worth £1000 and take her to holiday worth £4000? 

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 days ago