Melissa

I have 2 student loans I am working on paying off in the next couple months. I want to take care of them and move on, 

Is it better to get them out of the way first?

My cousin has one, and he’s very average. 

I’m looking for maybe 1 hour a week in terms of service? I’m single and like to work a lot and I don’t live with a roommate or anyone that contributes and as I get older I need the assistance. (I’m 32).

I’m not rich, or better than anyone, but I’m asking because I don’t have a house.

Do maids do apartments?

I personally feel a lot of companies were given the opportunity to profit off a devastating situation in a very arrogant manner. Making a donation as a tax write-off to your local hospital looks better than a YouTube video about your best staff/employees getting vaccinated. 

There are too many unknowns.

I asked him to a concert, and he suggested we get a hotel room after. 

When we got to the hotel room he wasn’t very nice to me. I didn’t like how he treated me. In fact I’m still trying to process all of it. 

If I would have left I felt like he would have tried to hurt me-just my feeling.

Why would a guy do this? Like why pay for a room in the first place if you just want to hurt me?

Why show interest in the concert if you just want to make me feel bad?

“His ex-girlfriend this...her masters degree...her this, she had a really nice condo...”

Why try to kiss me and then tell me you need to start working out again to get hard?

I’m a very hardworking, down-to-earth, grateful for the opportunity to work for what I have human. Many people don’t care about what they have like it’s the new normal and I’m wondering if I have a character flaw. 

I guess another person’s trash is another person’s treasure.

I’ll call my dad every now again, maybe once or twice a month to say hello.

I ask my dad about the stock market, and what to invest in (simple, small talk). He’s been around longer so he has advice-compounding etc. (Or so I think).

I told him I want to be able to ensure a great financial future for myself, because no one else will do that for me. It’s my life and I need to take care of myself. 

He then mentioned me bouncing ideas off of others for ideas and such and getting a couple friends to talk to. 

I’m not socially inept and I’m not afraid to talk to people (hello?? Yahoo answers!!).

I was a little offended because it kinda came off like he doesn’t really like hearing from me. I’m his kid. I think he might be jealous. 

Do you think he needs space?

It’s none of their business. 

Maybe it’s political, but I sense an overall difference in society already. 

I don’t know really what it is, but I think in the next 10 years we are going to see a lot of changes happen that are going to impact many lives in our society. 

I already sense less competition, and a night out with family at a restaurant feeling normal.

Maybe it’s political, but I sense an overall difference in society already. 

I don’t know really what it is, but I think in the next 10 years we are going to see a lot of changes happen that are going to impact many lives in our society. 

I already sense less competition, and a night out with family at a restaurant feeling normal.

Sometimes, I feel like I had more responsibility, more intuition, more integrity, more of a work ethic and more in kindergarten than some adults do today.

What happened to people building a life for themselves instead of having children? 

What happened to consciousness?

Family values?

Paying bills?

I feel like I see things differently than the average bear and choose to make decisions other’s my age aren’t. 

I’m definitely a future thinker. I get frustrated when I feel “hated” for making my own way.

New town, new life, everything. 

It’s just time. I’ve grown up. I’ve moved on.

I’ve already blocked my sister, and as bad as thst sounds, it’s helped a lot. 

I can’t use the past to create my future. I’m ready for new relationships, friends, culture, everything.

I knew what I leaving wasn’t ideal, but I don’t want it to come with me.

How do you move on?

What makes having maturity so tough to deal with? Like, can’t you see what you are doing?

“They’ll never let poor Rudolph 

 join in any reindeer games.”

I applied for a job in my field, which is very very competitive. Obviously the position requires a degree, but 86 people applied. 86 people have a masters degree? 86 people live in the area? Are you kidding me?

I’m not into sharing personal pictures. It’s just like, kind of pointless to me. I’m a hard-worker, and I make good money. I don’t need to share things to prove that. To me, that actually makes me seem more lonely because I care about sharing my business with others 

They aren’t married. One is divorced. All I care about is my career and myself. I know how hard I’ve had to work just at that I can’t imagine a kid. 

Am I missing something? 

We are living in some really interesting times. I see it getting really bad. Like really bad and I’m trying to take cover to prevent it from affecting me.

Do you see the reality I do? Politics aside, the choices people are making are really messed up. 

Having babies out of wedlock, lack of education, lack of ambition, mass retirement, it’s just terrible. I see it getting so bad I’m actually scared. 

Time to make a lemon meringue pie abc watch Christmas movies on Netflix.