Miss LaDy

i have been friends with this guy for awhile. we hang out at my house or his here and there. sometimes we meet for drinks. we do talk and text each other quite a bit. and yes we are friends with benefits. since we've become friends he has always been there for me wth a shoulder for me to cry on.

with that being said. there are somethings that he does that makes me think i need to slow down our friendship.

he gets annoyed when i tease him about getting a girlfriend, he goes through my cell and checks my pics, texts, call history etc.,gets upset if i miss his call or doesnt answer his text. if i answer my phone when hes around he wants to know who it is. and sometimes he'll wait at my house till i come home(i know thats creepy).

i do care for him, he's a great friend, but because of his actions i find myself holding back on dating. does this mean i want something more? im so confused.

i have talked to him about this, and he says he knows we can only be friends. so what gives?